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Sunday, July 30, 2006

It was a pity.

u noe, it suddenly dawned to me last nite, that the human is actually a very complex animal. u would tink u have seen thru him, but actually u have not. even the most transparent person u tink u noe, u don't. ppl, its not like i simplify tings in the past and tink tat everyone is wat they seem. hello, im 21 now, i would have seen my share of ppl. im not as naive or smt. its jus tat last nite, i had a reminder of how ugly or confused the human is.

we are all different, yet we are all same. we may have different skin color, gender, economic status, educational level etc etc, but deep down, we still have 2 eyes, 1 nose, 1 mouth, need food, air and water to survive. so. the bottom line is, if we are all the same, why do we need to make tings difficult for the fellow human being? of cos its self before others, tat much i agree most of the time. but, to offer a smile to someone, it doesnt cost anyting. besides, it takes only 17 muscles to smile. or, if smiling is really not ur ting, doing smt positive is not ur ting, at least dun do anyting negative. pls, do not spread untruths and gossips becos alot of ppl, despite their age, they are really not as mature as they tink they are, or as open-minded as they like to envision themselves.

i admit, im not a saint. but, being a victim of vicious, untrue gossips in the past, i noe how it feels like. so now, i make a concious effort not to lable ppl, or condemn anyone based on wat i hear. as long as u r nice to me, i dun really care wat other ppl say u do to them. unless i experience it personally, i'll still treat u as a fren. if im as unlucky as to get hurt by tat someone, ppl may say, see! i warned u bout him! u didnt listen to me... well, i noe, its always better to learn from someone else's mistake than to commit tat mistake personally. but i oso believe in the human nature, and tat not everyone is evil. i believe in giving the benefit of the doubt. mayb bcos in the past, few ppl ever gave me the benefit of the doubt and i was hurt n upset bout it. so i decided tat not all ppl have to undergo the same tings i did. even if i walk out of all those ordeals a much stronger and mature person, i still tink its not a v good experience and shd be avoided at all costs. i tink, in that sense, im abit more mature than wat others tink i am. sometimes i mite make the mistake of stereotyping ppl too, but i try not to let my judgments be affected.

but how many ppl can actually see the big picture and stop hurting others? the funny ting is, the ones who spread gossips and untruths, they are seldom the victims of the tongue. they probably have lead a sheltered life, as in, they are v seldom victims of malicious gossip and unpopularity etc. sigh.

i wonder, the ppl who spread such gossips, do they actually feel happier? i mean, of cos i partake in such tings sometimes, but i tink the extent of my gossip is not tat great. i mean, i do go ard spreading bad tings about someone! mayb i have ever commented on the on the bad dress sense or smt. but to spread really really malicious tings bout someone, i hope i have not. if i ever had, im sorry. will take note in the future.

u can say im abit disillusioned about the human being again. im abit affected by tat reminder i had last nite. if u guys are worried bout me, thank goodness, nope, im not the victim tis time rd. heng ah. it happened to a fren, and im jus upset tat since we are all bonded by the fact we are ppl in general, and bonded by the fact we are all from the same homeland, is there really a need to make life diff for fellow ppl?

dear all, take time off and reflect. isnt it time we take a step back and look at the big picture and make judgments for ourselves, instead of being influenced by wat others say and let them make decisions for us? we are all very vunerable and we need all the support we can get. we really do not need someone else to shovel more dirt on us when im sure everyone would have our inner demons and circumstances to fight with in the 1st place.

take time off to tink and be kind. at least, do not be mean.

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