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Tuesday, September 06, 2005

The Only Constant is Change

Well...where do i even begin... the only constant is change and while i have always known tis fact, still, to like, experience it now and then is really a wake up call to tell me that things dun always go ur way, and things change. Ppl change whether u like it or not. or sometimes, things still stay the same, no matter how much u want them to change.
Therefore, today's topic is CHANGE.
Things are always changing, from the seasons to the weather, to the ppl we meet, and the food we eat, to the frens we make, to the alliances we break, to the feelings once there, to the places we once sat.
The ting is, when the Change is here, do u still remain the same, do u accept the change or do u do something about it? there are like roughly 3 choices... Which one will u choose to adapt to the Change?
Change happens to every one.. whether u like it or not. Ppl who are ur frens.. they are still ur frens.. but not as close anymore.. Y? cos of Change. they have found someone better to take over ur position in their heart. therefore.. that "special fren" lable in their mind has Changed, from ur name to someone else. Suddenly, that someone (A), is sick. Fren is worried till sick cos A is sick. Fren is concerned for her. All the while u wonder wat all the fuss is about. A is not about to die soon anyway. n does Fren really need to walk in the middle of the night, 12am, jus to give A medicine? well.. i guess if im A i will touched till death. But im not A. therefore, from my point of view, a rather selfish one i mite say, Change has taken place. a Change of status. from the top floor with the best view, to the 2nd top floor with a not quite so nice view.U have been relegated. When that happens.. are u going to remain the same? Eg : still hope tat one day Fren will put u on the top floor again? are u going to accept the Change? Eg : try to tell urself its alrite.. i dun mind being 2nd to someone else. Or, do something about it? Eg : have a good talk to Fren and tell Fren how u feel?
Change.
When things no longer happen the way u are used to. When u realise u cannot perform someting u used to be able to do. Like play ball as well as u used to. Like to play the piano as well as u used to. Like to get as good grades as well as u used to. Like swim as well as u used to? What do u do? what happens when wat used to give u great joy in performin no longer gives u the same amt of satisfaction? U always tot u can play ball relatively well. Well u r wrong. U always tot u can swim well. Well, u r wrong again. what happens when ur perceptions about certain tings Change? do u accept the Change and try to improve or work towards it? or do u hide in a little corner and cry? Does crying help? No. Can crying Change anyting? Nope. Neither does hiding. working hard help? well.. sometimes it does, sometimes it does not. But at least u noe u have tried. working hard sometimes may not Change a ting, but hopefully it may make u feel better.
Change.... What else have i missed out, ppl? feel free to drop me topics to write about...

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